{"id":1335,"date":"2019-11-24T02:05:13","date_gmt":"2019-11-24T18:05:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.andreacagan.com\/?p=1335"},"modified":"2019-11-26T17:21:23","modified_gmt":"2019-11-27T01:21:23","slug":"consistency","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andreacagan.com\/index.php\/2019\/11\/24\/consistency\/","title":{"rendered":"Consistency"},"content":{"rendered":"

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.0.7″ background_image=”https:\/\/www.andreacagan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/andrea-content-background.jpg”][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_5,3_5″ _builder_version=”3.25″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”][et_pb_column type=”2_5″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_code admin_label=”Back Button Code” _builder_version=”3.29.1″ text_orientation=”left” custom_padding=”||10px|5px|false|false” animation_style=”fade” animation_delay=”500ms” locked=”off”][\/et_pb_code][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.andreacagan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/0077.jpg” _builder_version=”4.0.7″ custom_margin=”||38px|||” custom_padding=”|||6px|false|false” animation_style=”fade” box_shadow_style=”preset2″ locked=”off”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”3.25″ custom_padding=”|||” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.0.7″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” hover_enabled=”0″ text_text_color=”#ffffff”]This is my 100th weekly blog. When I realized that this morning, I had to lean back and take a deep breath. I reviewed some of the topics I\u2019ve written about and recalled how it felt when I started. I couldn’t imagine how I would reach other people and whether my words would matter. What if no one read it? Would I feel stupid or unimportant? If I did manage to get readers, would other people ridicule me? Would my ideas embarrass me? Now, I can hardly believe it’s coming on two years of Sundays and I still sit down each week to write this blog. I love doing it and I have a number of loyal people who who read my ideas and make smart and interesting comments.<\/p>\n

The fact that I keep on doing it, inspires the word \u201cconsistency\u201d in my mind. Twenty years ago, I wrote a book, \u201cRomancing the Bicycle,\u201d for Johnny G, the record holding athlete who created the Spinning and soul cycle craze, and he and I had a conversation about two words \u2013 discipline and consistency. We agreed that \u201cdiscipline\u201d is a hard word, suggesting a rigid structure that you take on with unswerving fortitude, staying on track when the going gets rough. I recall many Sundays when I groped around to find the right topic for my blog and I didn’t give up. That was about using my hard earned discipline.<\/p>\n

The grace comes when discipline turns into \u201cconsistency.\u201d That\u2019s a softer word that suggests a transformation from \u201cI have to\u201d to \u201cI\u2019m going to.\u201d When consistency kicks in (it will if you hang in there long enough), a healthy curiosity arises and facing the thing you set out to do feels natural. You do what\u2019s in front of you, not because you have to, but rather because you can’t imagine doing anything else. You really don\u2019t want to do anything else.<\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re searching for consistency around working out, eating a healthy diet, reading good books, being there for someone else, writing a blog every week, or showing up for work, it’s the same process. You start out using your discipline to get on track and the more you do it, the easier it becomes. When you stop feeling resentful or victimized by a promise you made to yourself, it becomes a labor of love, something that grounds you and helps you feel good about yourself. When we break promises we make to ourselves, we feel shattered. Who can we trust if we don’t trust ourselves? When we\u2019re loyal to ourselves and we keep those promises, we feel self-confident and safe. If it feels like you simply can’t keep going, remember that feelings change. Hang in there, support yourself, talk nicely to yourself, get support from friends, and the feelings will morph into something else. You just need to have patience and compassion and the good stuff will come.<\/p>\n

Are you consistent with yourself? How does that feel?
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This is my 100th weekly blog. When I realized that this morning, I had to lean back and take a deep breath. I reviewed some of the topics I\u2019ve written about and recalled how it felt when I started. I couldn’t imagine how I would reach other people and whether my words would matter. What […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"

This is my 100th<\/sup> weekly blog. When I realized that this morning, I had to lean back and take a deep breath. I reviewed some of the topics I\u2019ve written about and recalled how it felt when I started. I couldn't imagine how I would reach other people and whether my words would matter. What if no one read it? Would I feel stupid or unimportant? If I did manage to get readers, would other people ridicule me? Would my ideas embarrass me? Now, I can hardly believe it's coming on two years of Sundays and I still sit down each week to write this blog. I love doing it and I have a number of loyal people who who read my ideas and make smart and interesting comments.<\/span><\/p>

The fact that I keep on doing it, inspires the word \u201cconsistency\u201d in my mind. Twenty years ago, I wrote a book, \u201cRomancing the Bicycle,\u201d for Johnny G, the record holding athlete who created the Spinning and soul cycle craze, and he and I had a conversation about two words \u2013 discipline and consistency. We agreed that \u201cdiscipline\u201d is a hard word, suggesting a rigid structure that you take on with unswerving fortitude, staying on track when the going gets rough. I recall many Sundays when I groped around to find the right topic for my blog and I didn't give up. That was about using my hard earned discipline.<\/span><\/p>

The grace comes when discipline turns into \u201cconsistency.\u201d That\u2019s a softer word that suggests a transformation from \u201cI have to\u201d to \u201cI\u2019m going to.\u201d When consistency kicks in (it will if you hang in there long enough), a healthy curiosity arises and facing the thing you set out to do feels natural. You do what\u2019s in front of you, not because you have to, but rather because you can't imagine doing anything else. You really don\u2019t want to do anything else.<\/span><\/p>

Whether you\u2019re searching for consistency around working out, eating a healthy diet, reading good books, being there for someone else, writing a blog every week, or showing up for work, it's the same process. You start out using your discipline to get on track and the more you do it, the easier it becomes. When you stop feeling resentful or victimized by a promise you made to yourself, it becomes a labor of love, something that grounds you and helps you feel good about yourself. When we break promises we make to ourselves, we feel shattered. Who can we trust if we don't trust ourselves? When we\u2019re loyal to ourselves and we keep those promises, we feel self-confident and safe. If it feels like you simply can't keep going, remember that feelings change. Hang in there, support yourself, talk nicely to yourself, get support from friends, and the feelings will morph into something else. You just need to have patience and compassion and the good stuff will come.<\/span><\/p>

Are you consistent with yourself? How does that feel?<\/span><\/p>

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